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Verify
After signup, age, ID and a photo match are required before an invite can be approved. Reviewed by a human, held privately, and deleted on request. Income verification is optional.
LGBTQIA+ Friendly · Kink-literate · Marriage-minded
Marry the person
who understands the knot.
A private club for BDSM-aware adults building lifelong partnerships — LGBTQIA+ friendly and straight-inclusive, poly, ace, lavender. D/s, M/s, leather, and kink included. Introductions are negotiated, consent-first, and by invitation only.
Doors open 1 October 2026
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RACK · SSC · 18+ · 21+ where required
How it works
Three steps. In that order.
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Negotiate the fit
Compatibility begins with values, roles, and pace — hard limits before anything else.
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Reveal on mutual consent
Photos, kinks, and preferences unlock only when both of you say yes.
Request an invite first. Verification comes after signup and is required before an invite can be approved. Complete age, ID and photo verification — income verification is optional.
- Age & ID verified
- Hard limits honoured
- Trans & nonbinary affirming
- Consent-first by design
Guides
Plain-spoken references on kink-friendly marriage, long-term power exchange, and lavender marriages — written for adults who intend to stay together.
Kink-friendly marriage: how partners build one that lasts
What a kink-friendly marriage actually looks like: negotiating dynamics, consent agreements, privacy, family boundaries, and finding a marriage-minded kinky partner.
BDSM marriage: power exchange that survives a mortgage
How BDSM marriages handle 24/7 dynamics, D/s and M/s protocol, aftercare, negotiation reviews, and the ordinary logistics of a shared life. Consent-first, judgement-free.
Lavender marriage: what it means today
A lavender marriage is a marriage of convenience between people of differing sexual orientations. Its history, why people still choose one, and how to arrange it consensually.
Questions
The ones people actually ask.
When will I receive my invite?
The app goes live on 1 October. Invites roll out in small waves starting that day, so most waitlist members will hear from us within the first two weeks.
Is this a hookup app?
No. MarryMyKinks is for people looking for lifelong partnership — collared, married, or something in between. Play matters, but so does the person you build a life with.
Is this for LGBTQIA+ people and straight people alike?
Yes — LGBTQIA+ Friendly by design, not as an afterthought, and equally open to straight couples and singles. Lesbian, gay, bi, pan, ace, trans, nonbinary, intersex and heterosexual partners are welcome and matched with the same care. Pronouns are asked, respected, and never used as filters against you.
Which dynamics and orientations are welcome?
All of them, provided they're consenting and adult: D/s, M/s, leather, primal, little, brat, service, kink-aware vanilla, poly primaries, lavender marriages, LGBTQIA+ and straight partners alike.
Do I have to disclose my kinks to sign up?
No. Nothing intimate is required at any stage. When you're matched, kinks, limits, and photos are exchanged only after both sides opt in — negotiation before reveal, always.
Will anything on my card statement or inbox reveal what this is?
No. Billing descriptors and email subjects are deliberately neutral. Nothing we send names the nature of the service.
What does verification actually involve?
A brief identity and age check via a third party. We receive a yes/no result. We do not store your document, its number, or the image.
How are hard limits protected?
Limits are declared privately and are never shown to anyone until you consent, in that specific match. Reveal is symmetric — nobody sees yours unless you see theirs.
Can I delete my data?
Yes — instantly, and it's easy. Reply 'delete' to any email or use the in-app control. Your record is removed, not archived. It's your safeword; we honour it.
Safeword
Remove your email from the waitlist.
Enter the email you signed up with. We'll send a one-time link to confirm — nothing is deleted until you click it.