Get verified

Verification is what keeps this community safe: every member confirms they are 18+, proves their identity, and matches a live photo. Income verification is entirely optional — some members want it, most never will.

EmailUse the same address you joined the waitlist with.Legal name (as on your ID)Never displayed publicly — chosen names stay your public identity.

Date of birth (18+)Government ID Passport, driving licence or national ID. Cover any number you don't want us to hold.Selfie photo A clear, clothed photo of your face — used only to match your ID.

Income verification (optional)

Only if you want an income badge. Redact account numbers — we only need the band.

Income band

Proof of income (optional)Payslip, tax return or employer letter.

I confirm I am 18 or older, these documents are mine, and I consent to MarryMyKinks storing them privately for verification only. I can request deletion at any time.

Encrypted in transit and at rest · Reviewed by a human · Never shown on your profile